I- Care Rules
1. We Listen to Each Other
2. Hands Are for Helping, Not Hurting
3. We Use I-Care Language
4. We Care About Other's Feelings
5. We Are Responsible for What We Do and Say
I-Care Language
I-Care Language uses put-ups instead of put-downs to make other feel good.
I-Care Language uses put-ups instead of put-downs to make other feel good.
"I like you"
"Can I help you?" "Please" "Thank you" "Do you want to join us?" "Let's be friends" "You're awesome!" |
"You're annoying"
"Get out of here" "Nobody likes you" "You're ugly" "Give me that" "Why are you so weird?" "I don't care what you think" |
I-Messages
I-Messages are about telling someone how you're feeling and/or asking them to change what they are doing in a caring way. I-Messages don't blame people, they explain what you need.
I don't like it when you __________ because it makes me feel ________ so can you please ________.
I-Messages are about telling someone how you're feeling and/or asking them to change what they are doing in a caring way. I-Messages don't blame people, they explain what you need.
I don't like it when you __________ because it makes me feel ________ so can you please ________.
